Age 65 on Tuesday, December 15, 2020. Survived by loving companion Lynn Leghart. Father of Alyssa Spagnoletti. Beloved brother of Jon Kruhm, Donna (Kevin) Herbst, Jeffrey (Mary) Kruhm, and the late Nancy Queiser. Survived also by 4 nieces; Melanie, Morgan, Erin, and Lilyanna, and 2 nephews; Harrison and Joshua. Jay had a genuine warmth and was an accomplished golfer, lover of basketball and baseball who enjoyed riding his Harley. There will be a celebration of Jay's life at a future date.